Carolling at 90

Mammy and Daddy both sit
on either side of being ninety.
As they get older
hills feel steeper
and walks get shorter.
They see and hear
a little bit less
and they forget
a little bit more.

But they have one great blessing –
their personalities remain
intact.
And one thing in particular
has not diminished with age –
their love of singing.
Even now, at the age of 91,
Daddy stills seem to have a song
for every occasion
and Mammy often hums away to herself
without even realising it.

So today,
just a few days before Christmas,
I arrive in Derry,
armed with Christmas carols
for the three of us to sing.

And so the carols begin.
Good King Wenceslas,
Deck the Halls,
Hark the Herald Angels
and even Little Donkey …
the whole shebang!

It’s great fun
and it’s what Christmas
is all about .
(Did I mention
that Mammy and Daddy
are both very good singers?)

Carolling at ninety –
how wonderful!
(And how blessed!)

© Claire Murray, 23rd December 2025

Martha and Mary in December

Today is 18th December
and our Christmas tree
isn’t up yet.

Oh dear!

I’m barely awake
but thoughts of Christmas preparations
flood my mind
and as I settle down
to morning prayer,
I already feel
e x h a u s t e d !

Some Advent this has been!

Advent is a time
to prepare for the coming
of Jesus …
I don’t think
I’ve ever felt so unprepared
in my whole life!

The story of Jesus
visiting Martha and Mary
comes to mind.
Martha is furious,
having worked flat-out
to tend to their guests
while Mary has simply sat
at the feet of Jesus,
listening to Him.
Martha demands that Jesus to tell Mary
to help her with the work.

Jesus’s response is very simple
and very tender:
“Martha, Martha,
you worry and fret
about so many things
and yet few are needed –
indeed, only one.”

I sense Jesus
saying the very same words
to me.

I realise
that we’re free this afternoon
and we could actually put up
our Christmas tree …
hmmm ….
or we could go to the chapel
where Adoration is taking place.

Christmas tree or Adoration –
which will it be???

Hmmm …
Our Christmas tree
may not be up
but our crib is.
It’s got pride of place
in our front window.

We’ll go to Adoration
and we’ll kneel there before Jesus,
Just like Mary did.

(Spending time with Jesus –
much better preparation for His coming
than putting up a tree!)

© Claire Murray, 18th December 2025